The Pursuit of Perfection in Relationships: A Review of Perfectionism and Romantic Relationships
The Pursuit of Perfection in Relationships: A Review of Perfectionism and Romantic Relationships

Summary/Abstract: Perfectionism is a personality trait characterized by individuals setting excessively high standards for themselves and those around them and avoiding making mistakes. In recent years, the effects of perfectionism on romantic relationships have received increasing academic interest. This study comprehensively reviews the current literature on the effects of perfectionism on interpersonal relationships and its relationship with various variables such as relationship satisfaction, marital satisfaction, sexual satisfaction, forgiveness/unforgiveness, relationship adjustment, etc. in romantic relationships. In this context, the effects of perfectionism on both interpersonal and romantic relationships are discussed. In the reviewed studies, it has been stated that, in particular, other-oriented and socially prescribed perfectionism are associated with interpersonal conflict, social disconnection, and hostility. In addition, there are many empirical studies that specifically maladaptive/negative perfectionism, socially prescribed perfectionism, and partner-focused and partner-determined perfectionism negatively affect relationship dynamics. It is recommended that future research examine the relationships between different dimensions of perfectionism and romantic relationship processes, examine intervention strategies to reduce the negative effects of perfectionism on romantic relationships, and provide evidence on how this factor can be addressed in therapy processes. In conclusion, balancing perfectionism plays a critical role in maintaining healthy relationship dynamics, and interdisciplinary approaches need to be developed in this area.

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