Shimei-ryo and paid tenderness – potential for games Cover Image

Shimei-ryo i czułość za pieniądze. Czy można to wykorzystać w grach? Potencjał dla gier?
Shimei-ryo and paid tenderness – potential for games

Author(s): Katarzyna Skok
Subject(s): Anthropology, Media studies, Cultural Anthropology / Ethnology, Culture and social structure , Crowd Psychology: Mass phenomena and political interactions, Human Ecology, Rural and urban sociology, Identity of Collectives
Published by: Szkoła Wyższa Psychologii Społecznej
Keywords: shimei-ryo; tenderness; sleeping, cuddle; care; motivation; video games; Japan

Summary/Abstract: Shimei-ryo is a paid service offering a choice to pick a girl to sleep with (it is about sleeping side by side, not a sexual activity). In the current work the term is referred to a paradox in which (1) non-sexual behavior related to physical intimacy between two or more people is present and (2) means leading to this behavior (paying) exclude authentic intimacy. The present article is an attempt to interpret the phenomenon. In the first part shimei-ryo is analyzed in the context of ludus. Customer motivations and psychological aspects of snuggling are discussed. The second part includes a discussion on the possible application of the phenomenon in the Western culture and the use of mechanisms underlying it in games. It is proposed that - apart from traditional gaming elements – the human ability of multisensory integration and symbolic forms of care (non-verbal behavior or the „carefully” programmed chatterbots) are used.

  • Issue Year: 59/2019
  • Issue No: 01
  • Page Range: 156-167
  • Page Count: 12
  • Language: Polish