“My Partner Has ADHD” – Ways of Experiencing Relationships in the Narratives of Neurotypical Women
“My Partner Has ADHD” – Ways of Experiencing Relationships in the Narratives of Neurotypical Women

Summary/Abstract: Objective of the study: This article presents the findings of a study aimed at understanding the lived experiences of women who are in relationships with men diagnosed with ADHD and attempting to reach the subjective meanings held by such women. Background: When it comes to the romantic relationships formed by people with ADHD, there is a lack of relevant studies in Europe, with Poland being no exception. The issue of a relationship where one of the partners has ADHD is an area requiring scientific exploration. Method: The research carried out was based on the constructivist research trend. A biographical method was used, and thematic narrative interviews were conducted with women who are in relationships with men diagnosed with ADHD. It was difficult to find people for the study due to the lack of diagnosis in men, which narrowed the research group to nine women who come from Poland, are aged 24-46, and whose experience in relationships with men with ADHD ranges from 2 to 14 years. Results: An analysis of the empirical material shows various ways of feeling and interpreting relationships with a man who has ADHD. Some women experience an exceptional and unique relationship, while others talk about their experiences feeling regret, embarrassment and shame. Conclusion: The study carried out gives a voice to women who are in relationships with partners affected by ADHD. Through their accounts of romantic relationships, the authors of the biographies reveal their truth and share their subjective experiences. The women’s unique narratives provide an explanation and understanding of their individual perspectives. Implications: The voice of women in relationships with partners with ADHD can serve as a recommendation for changes that can make life easier for people living with partners with ADHD and improve the quality of their relationships.

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